I live in the South now, but this past week vividly brought back memories of my childhood in Harlan County, Kentucky. We had a snowstorm that dropped up to eleven inches of gorgeous wet snow on a normally snowless area of the country.
Unexpected snow delighted me for over 24 hours straight, piling up on the trees and bushes and weighing down the branches until they nearly touched the ground. I had never seen so much snow this far south. It was beautiful and exciting--that is--until the juice went off and the temperatures plummeted inside my unprepared house.
We piled quilts on our bed to stay warm |
Do you remember those frigid nights in the mountains when all we had to heat the house was a stove in the living room, fueled by coal? Some families were fortunate enough to have fireplaces in their bedrooms. We weren't. It was like sleeping outdoors.
Coal stove |
In the morning, we awoke to the dread of having to slide out from under the covers. We ran back to the stove to warm ourselves enough to take care of toileting and getting dressed for the day.
Ice on the windows |
Breakfast usually consisted of hot oatmeal with raisins. Mom figured it would warm us and keep us strong as we walked nearly a mile to school. In high school, my favorite breakfast became Chicken Noodle soup. At least we survived.
I had my doubts about survival last week during our surprise storm. I sat huddled under blankets during the day, trying to keep warm enough to survive. It made me wish I had the old pot-bellied stove to warm me. Of course, the one big difference was that I had no juice to run my heat or the microwave. I couldn't even fix my morning Keurig hot tea! And taking a shower was out of the question. I've become soft in the South.
Winter was a game of survival in the mountains. And survive we did. As I look back on that life, I'm amazed at one thing most of all. We didn't spend our days sitting in front of the fire, doing nothing but trying to stay warm. We went about life.
Yes, it was tough. Walking to school and back is beyond my comprehension now. Also, having to go outside to gather coal and lug it inside to stoke the fire would challenge me beyond my ability today. But, my mother did it every day. She also stayed up late on an exceptionally cold night to keep the fire going and making sure it didn't overheat and burn the house down. I remember many times when the stovepipe glowed red. Scary.
There are good memories of winter, too. A heavy snow meant fun for a kid. We stayed home from school and played outside, building forts and having snowball fights. Living on the side of a mountain, a favorite pastime was sliding down on a saucer sled, if you were lucky, or any other item that would slide across the snow. A friend's family used an old car hood.
Building a snowman |
That dirty snow is why we were extremely careful when we collected snow for our most favorite winter activity--making snowcream. It's also why we collected that snow first thing before we did anything that could possibly add undesirable ingredients to our snowcream.
That concoction of fresh white snow, sugar, cream and vanilla flavoring is one of my favorite memories. We filled a bowl with a huge scoop and sat in front of the stove to eat it. Even with the stove, our fingers and faces numbed. It was worth it.
Do you have memories of winter in the mountains? What was the hardest part of it for you? What's one of your favorite activities when it was cold enough to freeze your snot?
I love hearing your stories.
I love your stories Karen. I never could tell a story and get it right but boy if I could. I had some great memories growing up spending lot of time with my grandparents and they would tell us their stories sure wish I had a tape recorder in those days. I loved my childhood and the memories. Thanks for sharing can't wait for your book to come out. Love you Karen Hope you have a Merry Merry Christmas!
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I know about those stories from our grandparents. I wish I'd had a tape recorder and a camera. So many things I wish I had documented. Of course, a lot of what I did document was destroyed in the flood of '77. I'm glad you enjoy my memories. I'm sure you have a lot in you, too. The more I write about, the more I remember. Merry Christmas and I love you, my friend.
DeleteKaren, because I am also from Kentucky your memories sounded like a page out of my own childhood story however, told from a little skinny farm girl! Thanks for sharing. Wasn't it amazing that even though we might have been poor in material things, we were still so wealthy in the things that mattered! Bless you, Have yourself a Merry Christmas!
ReplyDeleteWe were blessed with amazing childhoods in Kentucky--whether in the mountains or on a farm. We had no idea how blessed we were, did we? Hope you have a JOYful Christmas.
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